To get the deletion date for items in the Recycle Bin, you don't need any extra libraries, you can use the Shell Objects for Scripting and Microsoft Visual Basic library (which I understand you already found in your last sentences) and the ExtendedProperty method.

Here is some code that dumps items in the recycle bin and their deletion date:

Sub Main()

    Dim shell = Activator.CreateInstance(Type.GetTypeFromProgID("Shell.Application"))
    Const ssfBITBUCKET As Integer = 10
    Dim folder = shell.Namespace(ssfBITBUCKET)

    For Each item In folder.Items
        ' dump some standard properties
        Console.WriteLine(item.Path)
        Console.WriteLine(item.ModifyDate)

        ' dump extended properties (note they are typed, here as a Date)
        Dim dd As Date = item.ExtendedProperty("DateDeleted")
        Console.WriteLine(dd)

        ' same but using the "canonical name"
        ' see https://learn.microsoft.com/en-us/windows/win32/api/propsys/nf-propsys-psgetpropertydescriptionbyname#remarks
        Console.WriteLine(item.ExtendedProperty("System.Recycle.DateDeleted"))
    Next

End Sub