Everyone knows (hopefully) its bad to terminate thread. The problem is when you don't own a piece of code you're calling. If this code is running in some do/while infinite loop , itself calling some native functions, etc. you're basically stuck. When this happens in your own code termination, stop or Dispose call, it's kinda ok to start shooting the bad guys (so you don't become a bad guy yourself).

So, for what it's worth, I've written those two blocking functions that use their own native thread, not a thread from the pool or some thread created by the CLR. They will stop the thread if a timeout occurs:

// returns true if the call went to completion successfully, false otherwise
public static bool RunWithAbort(this Action action, int milliseconds) => RunWithAbort(action, new TimeSpan(0, 0, 0, 0, milliseconds));
public static bool RunWithAbort(this Action action, TimeSpan delay)
{
    if (action == null)
        throw new ArgumentNullException(nameof(action));

    var source = new CancellationTokenSource(delay);
    var success = false;
    var handle = IntPtr.Zero;
    var fn = new Action(() =>
    {
        using (source.Token.Register(() => TerminateThread(handle, 0)))
        {
            action();
            success = true;
        }
    });

    handle = CreateThread(IntPtr.Zero, IntPtr.Zero, fn, IntPtr.Zero, 0, out var id);
    WaitForSingleObject(handle, 100 + (int)delay.TotalMilliseconds);
    CloseHandle(handle);
    return success;
}

// returns what's the function should return if the call went to completion successfully, default(T) otherwise
public static T RunWithAbort<T>(this Func<T> func, int milliseconds) => RunWithAbort(func, new TimeSpan(0, 0, 0, 0, milliseconds));
public static T RunWithAbort<T>(this Func<T> func, TimeSpan delay)
{
    if (func == null)
        throw new ArgumentNullException(nameof(func));

    var source = new CancellationTokenSource(delay);
    var item = default(T);
    var handle = IntPtr.Zero;
    var fn = new Action(() =>
    {
        using (source.Token.Register(() => TerminateThread(handle, 0)))
        {
            item = func();
        }
    });

    handle = CreateThread(IntPtr.Zero, IntPtr.Zero, fn, IntPtr.Zero, 0, out var id);
    WaitForSingleObject(handle, 100 + (int)delay.TotalMilliseconds);
    CloseHandle(handle);
    return item;
}

[DllImport("kernel32")]
private static extern bool TerminateThread(IntPtr hThread, int dwExitCode);

[DllImport("kernel32")]
private static extern IntPtr CreateThread(IntPtr lpThreadAttributes, IntPtr dwStackSize, Delegate lpStartAddress, IntPtr lpParameter, int dwCreationFlags, out int lpThreadId);

[DllImport("kernel32")]
private static extern bool CloseHandle(IntPtr hObject);

[DllImport("kernel32")]
private static extern int WaitForSingleObject(IntPtr hHandle, int dwMilliseconds);