See the question and my original answer on StackOverflow

There are issues with the original code, so here is a version that should work better. Note it must run in the same bitness (32-bit vs 64-bit) as the operating system (explorer) to work, otherwise, it won't read anything. Also, it does not need to be compiled as unsafe.

public static void ScanToolbarButtons()
{
    var handle = GetSystemTrayHandle();
    if (handle == IntPtr.Zero)
        return;

    var count = SendMessage(handle, TB_BUTTONCOUNT, IntPtr.Zero, IntPtr.Zero).ToInt32();
    if (count == 0)
        return;

    GetWindowThreadProcessId(handle, out var pid);
    var hProcess = OpenProcess(PROCESS_ALL_ACCESS, false, pid);
    if (hProcess == IntPtr.Zero)
        throw new Win32Exception(Marshal.GetLastWin32Error());

    var size = (IntPtr)Marshal.SizeOf<TBBUTTONINFOW>();
    var buffer = VirtualAllocEx(hProcess, IntPtr.Zero, size, MEM_COMMIT, PAGE_READWRITE);
    if (buffer == IntPtr.Zero)
    {
        CloseHandle(hProcess);
        throw new Win32Exception(Marshal.GetLastWin32Error());
    }

    for (int i = 0; i < count; i++)
    {
        var btn = new TBBUTTONINFOW();
        btn.cbSize = size.ToInt32();
        btn.dwMask = TBIF_BYINDEX | TBIF_COMMAND;
        if (WriteProcessMemory(hProcess, buffer, ref btn, size, out var written))
        {
            // we want the identifier
            var res = SendMessage(handle, TB_GETBUTTONINFOW, (IntPtr)i, buffer);
            if (res.ToInt32() >= 0)
            {
                if (ReadProcessMemory(hProcess, buffer, ref btn, size, out var read))
                {
                    // now get display text using the identifier
                    // first pass we ask for size
                    var textSize = SendMessage(handle, TB_GETBUTTONTEXTW, (IntPtr)btn.idCommand, IntPtr.Zero);
                    if (textSize.ToInt32() != -1)
                    {
                        // we need to allocate for the terminating zero and unicode
                        var utextSize = (IntPtr)((1 + textSize.ToInt32()) * 2);
                        var textBuffer = VirtualAllocEx(hProcess, IntPtr.Zero, utextSize, MEM_COMMIT, PAGE_READWRITE);
                        if (textBuffer != IntPtr.Zero)
                        {
                            res = SendMessage(handle, TB_GETBUTTONTEXTW, (IntPtr)btn.idCommand, textBuffer);
                            if (res == textSize)
                            {
                                var localBuffer = Marshal.AllocHGlobal(utextSize.ToInt32());
                                if (ReadProcessMemory(hProcess, textBuffer, localBuffer, utextSize, out read))
                                {
                                    var text = Marshal.PtrToStringUni(localBuffer);
                                    Console.WriteLine(text);
                                }
                                Marshal.FreeHGlobal(localBuffer);
                            }
                            VirtualFreeEx(hProcess, textBuffer, IntPtr.Zero, MEM_RELEASE);
                        }
                    }
                }
            }
        }
    }

    VirtualFreeEx(hProcess, buffer, IntPtr.Zero, MEM_RELEASE);
    CloseHandle(hProcess);
}

private static IntPtr GetSystemTrayHandle()
{
    var hwnd = FindWindowEx(IntPtr.Zero, IntPtr.Zero, "Shell_TrayWnd", null);
    hwnd = FindWindowEx(hwnd, IntPtr.Zero, "TrayNotifyWnd", null);
    hwnd = FindWindowEx(hwnd, IntPtr.Zero, "SysPager", null);
    return FindWindowEx(hwnd, IntPtr.Zero, "ToolbarWindow32", null);
}

[DllImport("kernel32", SetLastError = true)]
private static extern IntPtr OpenProcess(int dwDesiredAccess, bool bInheritHandle, int dwProcessId);

[DllImport("kernel32", SetLastError = true)]
private static extern bool CloseHandle(IntPtr hObject);

[DllImport("kernel32", SetLastError = true)]
private static extern bool WriteProcessMemory(IntPtr hProcess, IntPtr lpBaseAddress, ref TBBUTTONINFOW lpBuffer, IntPtr nSize, out IntPtr lpNumberOfBytesWritten);

[DllImport("kernel32", SetLastError = true)]
private static extern bool ReadProcessMemory(IntPtr hProcess, IntPtr lpBaseAddress, ref TBBUTTONINFOW lpBuffer, IntPtr nSize, out IntPtr lpNumberOfBytesRead);

[DllImport("kernel32", SetLastError = true)]
private static extern bool ReadProcessMemory(IntPtr hProcess, IntPtr lpBaseAddress, IntPtr lpBuffer, IntPtr nSize, out IntPtr lpNumberOfBytesRead);

[DllImport("user32", SetLastError = true)]
private static extern int GetWindowThreadProcessId(IntPtr hWnd, out int lpdwProcessId);

[DllImport("kernel32", SetLastError = true)]
private static extern IntPtr VirtualAllocEx(IntPtr hProcess, IntPtr lpAddress, IntPtr dwSize, int flAllocationType, int flProtect);

[DllImport("kernel32", SetLastError = true)]
private static extern bool VirtualFreeEx(IntPtr hProcess, IntPtr lpAddress, IntPtr dwSize, int dwFreeType);

[DllImport("user32")]
private static extern IntPtr SendMessage(IntPtr hWnd, int Msg, IntPtr wParam, IntPtr lParam);

[DllImport("user32", SetLastError = true)]
private static extern IntPtr FindWindowEx(IntPtr hWndParent, IntPtr hWndChildAfter, string lpClassName, string lpWindowName);

private const int TBIF_BYINDEX = unchecked((int)0x80000000); // this specifies that the wparam in Get/SetButtonInfo is an index, not id
private const int TBIF_COMMAND = 0x20;
private const int MEM_COMMIT = 0x1000;
private const int MEM_RELEASE = 0x8000;
private const int PAGE_READWRITE = 0x4;
private const int TB_GETBUTTONINFOW = 1087;
private const int TB_GETBUTTONTEXTW = 1099;
private const int TB_BUTTONCOUNT = 1048;

private static bool IsWindowsVistaOrAbove() => Environment.OSVersion.Platform == PlatformID.Win32NT && Environment.OSVersion.Version.Major >= 6;
private static int PROCESS_ALL_ACCESS => IsWindowsVistaOrAbove() ? 0x001FFFFF : 0x001F0FFF;

[StructLayout(LayoutKind.Sequential)]
private struct TBBUTTONINFOW
{
    public int cbSize;
    public int dwMask;
    public int idCommand;
    public int iImage;
    public byte fsState;
    public byte fsStyle;
    public short cx;
    public IntPtr lParam;
    public IntPtr pszText;
    public int cchText;
}